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  1. R has moved to New Mexico, the move is 80% done, I think, and it is odd to get used to. Worse in some ways, easier in others.
  2. My current psych med person at kaiser mentioned that the dosage of one of my meds that I have been on for AT LEAST 15 YEARS tends to cause cloudy brain. It would have been really nice had someone thought to mention that before, it's not like I've been struggling with it for at least a decade or anything. So meds are being rearranged and I can already feel a bit of difference.
    I would really like to hunt down some of my previous prescribers and slap them with a stinky fish.
    I do have hope that this will lead to more success in clawing out of the hermit-slump
  3. I bought a small sundew, to live in the kitchen window and hopefully help with the occasional drain fly problem. I did not adequately research the needs of sundews in advance, so now I have a spiffy little self-watering pot with built in grow light for it, which will hopefully keep it alive. It might also be just straight up too cold, though.
  4. I am going to be taking conversational japanese at online community ed with D next term, mostly to be with D. It has a high chance of being a train wreck, but I figure it's worth a shot anyway. He and O are both really into vocaloid music right now.
  5. I am signed up for the Arisia art show, which means I need to make all the things. Whether or not enough sketches make it out of my notes to require the itty-bitty miter box is I think currently at 1 in 10 odds, but those are the things I am most excited about.
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Due to my father's new and significant health issues, he and my step-mom are moving out of and selling the house they have lived in for almost 40 years. The number of wonderful memories I have associated with this house is kind of amazing (mind you, I never *lived* there for longer than a month, so much less chance of developing bad memories) especially since it is where family reunions and our extended-dance-remix Christmases were usually hosted. It watched it go from a small fixer upper to a gorgeous house with an award-winning garden, with new changes every couple of years.

They are having a limited sort of open house thing for people to come and see if there is anything they would like to keep; I haven't interacted outside the family with anyone but hospital staff, but am seriously considering going to the "family only" day. I have no idea if there is any stuff I will actually want to bring home, but I have a brain like a sieve, and well, it feels kind of worth the risk to go see my Dad.

It was absolutely time for them to move -- the house and garden require a lot of upkeep, and post-stroke stairs are a bad idea for Dad, so I am glad they found a new (single floor) space that still not too far away, it's just a little odd to think that I'll probably never have a reason to go back to Hoyt Street.
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We are not super holiday-ing this year, we don't most years really, but we did manage to go out for our usual drive to view houses with encrapulated Christmas lights and badly sing Christmas songs, starting with O Lutefisk, on Christmas Eve.

Gift-wise we are becoming progressively more contained; adults pretty much opted out (partially because none of us could think of things we really wanted that were gift-y) and the kids gifts were less splashy, although they seemed very pleased with their art supplies and subscriptions to japanese kawaii+snack themed boxes.



I made the traditional lasagna. In point of fact, my mother's traditional holiday lasagna was an excellent frozen variety from Costco, but I actually make a quite good lasagna, with turkey Italian sausage instead of cow and most importantly, gluten-free noodles. (based on this no-boil lasagna recipe with only minor tweaks.  I don't own bottles of Italian Seasoning and pretty much just throw in a ton of garlic and oregano and basic and maybe pepper and call it good)

O has now been introduced to the ultimate Christmas movie, Die Hard, though D opted out. It really stands up ridiculously well.
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Taxes done and paid for yay. And I made it to the pool twice this week, and cooked dinner most nights, so I get adulting points.

I have all these scattered notes from last weekend's gathering for my Dad's 80th birthday that need to be assembled into a proper post, even if just a private one, but these two things really stuck out.

1) My folks are getting old. As are my sisters. It's quite a preview of what's coming and does make me want to figure out how to change some things, health-wise.

2) My Dad is hilarious. Favorite story that doesn't need family context:

When he started college, he was at a land grant college in Utah, which at the time meant ROTC was mandatory for men. My Dad grew up poor in the north of Idaho during the Depression and hunting and fishing were a critical part of putting food on the table; he very much knows his way around rifles.

Part of ROTC was "Drill", where they had to put on their carefully maintained uniforms and take these basically decorative rifles and go do the walking and the parade stance and all that.

There was an officious junior who was would come and do Inspection during this time, grabbing the "rifles", snapping them open, and checking them for cleanliness and good order. He got to my Dad, opened it, and then barked

   "Solider, your piece is filthy"

to which Dad replied

   "Fuck you, it doesn't even have a firing pin"

and just walked off, never to return. 

(He still got a B, because he aced the written test. They told them it to allot 5 hours; He did it in 20 minutes. He manged to avoid ROTC entirely after that, between transferring to a non-land grant college to finish his Associate's and then just ... strategically avoiding the ROTC table during registration when he got back to another land grant college for the rest of his Bachelor's.)

turkey

Nov. 25th, 2016 11:16 am
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Thanksgiving was lovely. I wasn't ready to deal with certain tr*mp-supporting in-laws without screaming/crying yet, so S and I went to turkey day with my family which are pretty much all UU hippie leftist weirdos, most of whom have logged hours in marching and such. It was comfy. And there was pie and cranberries and stuffing so yay.  And my step-aunt informed me that she still has not met my (tween/teen) children, so clearly us as a family spending more time with my birth family is long overdue.

And on the way home we drove at 5 mph through the empty street next to Grand Avenue park so as not to break our pokemon streaks, and there was a high level Jinx and 6 pokestops all clumped together, so that was a nice end to the day.
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My oldest niece got married yesterday, in a BEEYOTIFUL garden wedding on the farm where she lives on Bainbridge.
My pictures aren't pretty (my camera phone sucks, and I have lost my mojo, and they have an awesome photographer so I'm sure there will be great pics eventually and mostly didn't bother) but I got a few, though apparently none of the brides. (x-posted from instagram. I was going to claim I update instagram more often than LJ, but then I looked at my datestamps. Ooops.):

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I was sternly told to go do some self-care, so I had Indian food and a loooong massage on a table with the warmer on high and wow. Even though there were some ouchy bits (I think something trigger point-ish wss happening) I actually ended the massage all floaty, which hasn't happened in a long time.

I also go started on the video crash learning, and got one more album design approved and off my hands so yay.

I have been approved for promoted pins on pinterest, which of course makes me think I don't have a pin worth actually promoting. (I have one really POPULAR pin but it is to a tutorial and I am unsure if that generates sales, or just goodwill.)

Yoga has been basically impossible to get to; I think next year I need to just assume I can't regularly go in the summer and have a different plan next year.

Dan is progressing in his skateboarding at a rapid pace. I'm going to try and take some video of THAT too, though it will probably be more challenging than the relatively slow moving books.

it begins

Nov. 19th, 2014 10:14 pm
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My niece (oldest of the crew) has just announced her engagement to her gf of several years. I will not be at all surprised if some of the other nieces/nephews follow suit soonish. (they are still babies how is this happening)

I wonder if any of them will ask me for wedding planning advice -- certainly they aren't going to be needing any "placating traditional mother of bride wishes" on my side of the family. :)

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